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Learning from Pain & Pleasure
by J. Donald Walters
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oldest and surest method of learning is that of punishment and reward. A child
is scolded or punished if he does something wrong, and praised or rewarded for
doing something well. Rats can be trained to follow pre-selected paths through a
maze by giving them a mild electric shock if they choose wrongly, and placing a
tasty morsel at the end of the right choice. Even worms have been reported to
learn by these methods.
The model for this kind of training lies in Nature herself. The pain one
experiences if one goes against Nature, and the pleasure if one cooperates with
it, is one way all creatures are guided — not always infallibly, but in a
general sense correctly. A child learns, if it touches a hot stove, not to
repeat the experiment. Sensitivity to extreme heat is given us for our
protection, not for our misery. All living creatures learn, quickly or slowly
according to their intelligence, what "works" for them and what doesn't.
If a child plunders the cookie jar, it may learn from repeated forays that
too many cookies give tummy aches. Meanwhile, he may be helped by a stern
reprimand, but experience itself, if not too drastic, is always the best
teacher.
As creatures learn to avoid pain and to seek pleasure, so man strives to
avoid also mental suffering and to seek happiness. Punishment and reward
encourage life in the long process of evolution from the lowly germ to the
spiritual enlightenment of masters like Jesus Christ and Buddha. At life's
higher stages of development, man's twofold desire to avoid suffering and find
happiness becomes refined to an intense desire for escape from ego-bondage and a
companion desire for expansion in spiritual bliss.
Consciousness and bliss are innate in everything. The very universe
was manifested out of Absolute Spirit: ever-conscious, ever-existing, ever-new
Bliss, or Satchidananda as Swami Shankaracharya called it.
Evolution is driven by the impulse in all creatures to avoid threats to their
own bliss-potential. What each one perceives of that potential depends on its
own level of evolution. To the more primitive creatures it may mean only
comfort; to others, food. Nevertheless, according to the degree of awareness
expressed in each one, it is bliss they seek. Therefore, the loss of bliss is
what they try to avoid.
Charles Darwin declared that survival is the primary impulse of life. This
instinct, however, is no mindless urge. If creatures struggle consciously to
maintain their existence, it is because, to them, it represents something
important. They cling to it not as a mere projection of Newtonian inertia.
Rather, they cling because their awareness is a manifestation, however inchoate,
of bliss. Survival is a paramount concern for them only when their lives are
actively threatened, for they want to preserve their present measure of
conscious bliss. Otherwise, all they want is simply to enjoy life.
Bliss is heavily veiled in the lower forms of life. The highest to which they
aspire is to avoid physical pain, and to experience physical pleasure. Man is
different in that his aspiration is more deliberate, and more personal. With his
relatively refined awareness, he realizes also that physical sensations are
usually brief in duration, and that the emotional ups and downs that accompany
pleasure and pain are temporary, like tossing ocean waves. Thus, he envisions
something more permanent than pleasure, and seeks happiness. He tries to avoid
mental suffering also — the loss of a job, for instance, or of reputation — and
willingly endures even physical pain to achieve long-range goals. With further
refinement of his awareness, he seeks to avoid feelings, thoughts, and actions
that might prevent him from realizing eternal bliss. For he has discovered that
the source of all suffering lies in the fact that his attention has been
diverted from his own reality.
Happiness springs from within the self. It doesn't depend on outer
conditions. Nothing outside ourselves, therefore, can define or qualify our
happiness except as we allow it to do so. Once this unalterable truth is
realized, happiness become our permanent possession.
Unfortunately, life conditions people to seek fulfillment outside, not
inside, themselves. As energy forms the body in the womb, it conditions the
fetus, and later on the newborn baby to seek expression outwardly also. The baby
needs milk. It must work at developing its body's movements. Life itself is an
adventure in learning how to relate to objective reality. Gradually, the
adventure becomes one of learning to discriminate between what is real what
merely seems so.
The world as the senses present it to us is a mirage. It seems hard or soft
to the touch; pleasant or unpleasant to the palate; beautiful or ugly to the
eyes; harmonious or cacophonous to the ears; sweet or acrid to the sense of
smell. In fact, it is none of these things. Clues are given us to a very
different reality. Solid-seeming matter can be penetrated by sound waves, and by
x-rays. Food that human beings abominate is eagerly ingested by other creatures.
The senses constantly deceive us, for they expose us to a very limited range of
sound and light vibrations. What seems to us pleasant or unpleasant is often a
very subjective evaluation, widely varied even within the narrow "spectrum" of
human tastes. "Beauty," it is said, "is in the eye of the beholder." The eye can
be trained to see beauty everywhere. People can also be conditioned by
disappointment to see ugliness everywhere, as they sow their experiences as
seeds of further unhappiness.
We refer things back constantly to our reactions, without which
objective reality would hold little meaning for us. People realize in time that
their most intimate reality is their own state of consciousness. It is in their
reactions that they suffer or rejoice. One's reactions should therefore be his
paramount concern.
What is man, relative to the vast universe? Is he utterly insignificant, as
the findings of astronomy might suggest? We see ourselves instinctively as
central to everything in existence. Nor is this instinct misguided. For it is
our own perception that must expand. In ourselves also, our perceptions can
shrink. Life leads us by expanding sympathy to an ever-more refined awareness.
It also, if we allow it to, leads us to a contracting sympathy, and a gradually
diminishing awareness, by which our potential for bliss is suppressed.
Pain and pleasure are our first teachers. The pain causes us to contract
inwardly — not mentally only, but in physical tension. Pleasure brings a feeling
of relaxation and mental expansion. We gradually learn to associate suffering
more with mental than with physical tension, and happiness more with mental
well-being.
From these facts it emerges that moral principles have their roots in Nature.
Why is it wrong to steal from others, or to injure them? Not because of societal
or scriptural strictures, but because one is punished by his own nature, which
causes physical contraction and tension, and a mentally self-defensive attitude.
To go against natural law is to offend against ourselves. As a consequence, we
experience pain. Thus, even if the pirate who robs others views himself as the
gainer, materially speaking, his contraction of sympathy and his accompanying
fear of retribution is a constant punishment for disturbing the harmony in
himself and in his surroundings. The very universe becomes, for him, a hostile
environment. Increasing inner disharmony becomes at last intolerable to him in
the alienation it brings him from others, and, despite every affirmation to the
contrary, in his diminishing sense of self-worth.
Growth in understanding can be accomplished only by the individual. Of
what use to a child the reassurances that others, some day, will become adults?
Evolution itself is not focused so much on developing new species as it is on
the progress of individual awareness. Society may have to restrain its members
if they persist in anti-social behavior, but the laws of human nature exact
their own price, ultimately.
The wrongdoer eventually punishes himself. Foolish is he who scoffs, "Oh,
eventually! Who cares about 'eventually'?" Eventually, however, will be very
much right now, when it arrives!
This
article was excerpted from God Is For Everyone, ©2003, by J. Donald
Walters.
Reprinted with permission of the publisher, Crystal Clarity Publishers.
www.crystalclarity.com.
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Donald Walters (Swami Kriyananda) has written over
eighty books and edited two books of Paramhansa Yogananda's which have become well known:
The Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam Explained and a compilation of sayings of the
Master, The Essence of Self-Realization. In 1968 Walters founded Ananda, an intentional
community near Nevada City, California, based on the teachings of Paramhansa
Yogananda. Visit the Ananda website at
http://www.ananda.org
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