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Choose Joy -- Again & Again
by René Gaudette
with Maggie McGuffin-Gaudette
We
would suggest here, dear friends, that if you were to observe yourselves very
carefully and observe the choices that you allow yourselves to make in your
existence, you would observe the limits to which you yourselves choose to impose
on the joy of your existence. You would observe the degree to which you limit
your joy of existence.
Now, existence itself, in its natural state, is a state of absolute joy, we
assure you. Existence itself was not intended to be painful, sorrowful,
damaging, hurtful, reducing, denigrating or denying. You did not create
existence with the intent to experience pain and sorrow, we assure you. Many
individuals believe that, when they incarnated, they had a certain direction of
existence -- to experience pain and sorrow. They see it as karma or karmic
reaction to their existence. And as a result, they choose to accept pain,
sorrow, hurt, denigration, and denial in their existence, for after all, this is
payback for karma.
And we would suggest that this is poppycock, sheer poppycock! There is no
such thing as an automatic payback. There is no such thing as an automatic
denigration of your existence. There is no such thing as an automatic denial of
yourselves. No such thing as an automatic reduction of joy in your existence.
There is, however, such a thing as choosing to reduce the joy of your existence.
And if you choose to believe that it is necessary for you to reduce your
existence in order to experience the experience of payback, we assure you, you
do so out of joy. You do so from a joy of love.
Some would suggest that if that's the case, why would we even bother? And we
would suggest, absolutely, why bother? Why bother reducing your existence in
order to experience pain, sorrow, reduction, denial, denigration or karmic
payback? We assure you, there is no reason that can be described as valid for
doing so. There is reason that can be justified on the basis of ego-personality,
for it perceives itself as "less than" and therefore it can justify
itself in a number of different ways. But we assure you, regardless of how you
perceive the justification, the only validity of the choice of reduction is that
you choose to do so, and as a result, you choose to do so out of joy.
Think about this. Here you are all standing in a group, each one of you
flagellating each other and saying, "Oh joy, isn't this wonderful. Hit me
again please. Oh joy, isn't this wonderful. One more time, I really want to feel
this one. Oh joy, isn't this wonderful, do it again. Do it again and do it
again." We would suggest that this would make a good scene in a comedy, but
not much more than that.
There is no need to deny and denigrate yourselves. Far from it. Therefore,
why not instead stand in a circle or a group and appreciate each other and say,
"Oh joy, love me some more. Oh joy, compliment me more. Oh joy, appreciate
me more. Oh joy, do it again and again and again." Both are joy. The choice
is yours as to which one you would like. We would suggest that of greater
expansion of existence is to recognize that because you can choose any -- and we
do say any -- aspect of existence, why not choose an aspect that is loving,
supportive and expansive to the self as opposed to a circumstance or situation
that denies and denigrates the self?
We're suggesting that you begin to recognize the degree to which you can
command yourselves, in your existence, to choose to your benefit, to choose to
reflect the joy of your existence, to choose to allow your existence to be a
reflection of the joy of your existence. You can do so. But it requires a
willingness to do so consciously.
Now, some would argue that if every choice in our existence had to be
conscious, you would be overwhelmed. After all, if choice is made every moment
of existence, how can you be conscious of every choice? And we would suggest,
who needs to? The point is begin. Don't sit there and say, "I can't do it,
it's too much." And therefore you sit with arms crossed, simply waiting for
existence to happen to you. And then you say, "See there, I proved to
myself again what a lousy life I have."
We would suggest, choose and choose again and choose again, and each choice
that you make, be conscious of why you choose to make that choice as best as you
can. For we assure you, if you are conscious in the moment of why you make a
choice, even though the result of that choice may not be what your
ego-personality would anticipate, you will maintain a degree of consciousness
that will expand, and the joy in your existence will expand. You will find
yourselves leading a joyful, empowered existence that will move you from
perspective to perspective, from circumstance to situation, and allow you to
choose the direction of your existence to your benefit.
Think of it. It's the equivalent of someone not knowing how to swim, deciding
to go into the water and saying to themselves, "I don't know quite how to
swim, but I will try." After one stroke, two strokes, the nose goes under
the water, the eyes fall under, the breathing comes in, water goes into the
lungs, the person gags and says, "There you go, that's it; I'm not going to
do this again." And as a result, for the remainder of her existence she
only ventures into the water no deeper than her big toe for fear of gagging,
regardless of the fact that her mouth is not near her big toe. But this is what
she chooses. For after all, if she were to trip and fall, her mouth might be in
the water, and she might gag.
The alternative is to be conscious of why you allowed the nose to go under
the water, why the mouth went under, why the choice was made to attempt
something that, at that point, you weren't ready to do. Then you can choose not
to fear the experience, not to limit the experience and make choices that would
eventually lead you to become a great swimmer. That's the alternative.
Your existence is the same. You can spend your time making one choice and
letting the rest remain in a subconscious and unconscious perspective as a
result of created belief structures which, in effect, will limit your existence
-- or you can begin to make choices consciously, recognizing that every time you
choose, you do so out of joy, and therefore that joy manifests itself in your
existence. The more you choose consciously, the more conscious joy you bring to
your existence, the more conscious expansion you bring to your existence.
Have you ever seen an individual who chooses everything consciously? There
isn't a happier individual. Why? Because they choose everything, and they know
they choose everything. They choose the drink they're going to have for
breakfast, what they're going to eat, how their body is going to feel. They
choose the clothes they're going to wear; in fact, they even choose the
underwear they wear. They choose the make-up, the hair, the style, the color;
they choose the car; they choose the job; they choose the environment; they
choose their friends; they choose their relationships; they choose the
circumstances of their existence. And as a result, they are joyful and they
manifest it.
And when the choice brings sorrow and pain, they are joyful at recognizing
that they have brought to their consciousness an awareness of a choice made
unconsciously and subconsciously. As a result, they can expand that existence by
then moving that choice to the conscious perspective. And they choose to do so;
and again more joy expands their existence. Look around, you will find these
individuals. We assure you, they exist. They're all around you. There aren't
many, but they are all around you. Each one that you observe, regardless of who
it is you observe, you can observe the joy they have in their existence, if you
choose. However, we assure you that if you don't have a great deal of joy in
your existence, you will choose not to observe a joyful person. Why would you
choose to observe a joyful person to remind you of what you don't have? Some
would because they like to be reminded of their lack. Most would not, but there
are some who would. Some like to know that they are "less than" and
like to be reminded of their perceptions of "less than." But it is all
a perception -- that's all it is -- and the perception is an illusion.
Joy, however, is not an illusion. Joy is the constant permeating all of your
existence. As a result, regardless of what you choose, regardless of the
circumstances under which the choice is made -- regardless of whether it be
conscious, subconscious or unconscious in relation to the ego-personality -- we
assure you that each choice that you make, you do so out of joy. Therefore,
observe the degree of joy that you have, that you are experiencing in your
existence, and you will observe the degree to which you consciously are allowing
yourselves to choose.
We assure you, you have joy in your existence. Regardless of whether the
choice is conscious or unconscious, the joy exists. However, to observe the joy,
you must then observe the conscious perspective of the choice made. And then,
dear friends, it would be the equivalent of standing under Niagara Falls when
someone had dammed it, and all of a sudden the dam opens on top of you. We
assure you, the water will rush over you, take you, carry you and give you the
greatest ride of your life. Now, this isn't something to be afraid of. Some
people would say, "But all that water will kill me." We assure you, it
will not. It will bring you on the greatest ride of your existence. It will give
you the greatest joy, the greatest experience, the greatest expansion; it will
move you to expand your existence beyond the limits you've set for yourselves.
And then, dear friends, the joy will so fill your heart that you will choose to
share it with others. Not just with one or two or three, but with so many that
eventually they will laugh at the giddiness of the joy within you.
Think of it this way: When you walk down the street, and someone goes by you
laughing, and you wonder why, it's because he perceives the joy in you. Joy, in
effect, is contagious. It brings about a certain giddiness, a certain lightness
of heart to individuals. Joy is that which resonates with the heart chakra. It
is the self-love. No one can resist self-love -- no one. Not even the most
closed-off person could resist self-love. Now, we didn't say that he/she
wouldn't react to it differently. We said she couldn't resist it.
Therefore, give yourselves the opportunity to recognize the joy that you have
of your existence. And when, as a result of a choice, a certain circumstance or
situation occurs that to you is defined or judged as being hurtful, sorrowful,
or harmful to your existence, observe the joy with which you made that choice.
Observe how much self-love you have that allowed you to make that choice in your
existence. And recognize that, though you may not perceive the interconnection
of that choice to the joy of the totality of existence, there is an
interconnection. And that a choice made at any moment of existence can manifest
itself at any other moment of existence.
As a result, be willing to experience the joy of your existence. "That
Which You Choose, You Do So Out of Joy." Explore, experience, expand and
enjoy.
This
article is excerpted from The Wonders -- The Defining Statements of Existence,
©2001, by René Gaudette. Reprinted with permission of the publisher, Light
Technology Publishing. www.lighttechnology.com
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René Gaudette,
has been on a personal journey of self-awareness, enlightenment and growth since
1987. After a near-death experience in 1989, he came to the
realization that he was a deep trance channel.
Maggie McGuffin-Gaudette, has
been on a spiritual journey since childhood and is an accomplished artist. She
now spends most of her time and energy in assisting The Wonders in coming
through into the 3rd dimension reality. For more information, write to The
Wonders Press Inc., 8361 - 11th Line RR #2, Thornton, Ontario, L0L 2N0 Canada.
(705) 721-0238 or visit www.thewonders.com
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