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Bringing Out the Shadow
by Carolyn Baker, Ph.D.
 According
to Jung, the shadow is any part of the psyche which remains unconscious. It is
not always dark or undesirable. Since the shadow is any part of ourselves that
we "send away," it contains material that is both constructive and destructive.
I am frequently asked to explain the difference between the shadow and the
dark side. The distinction is really quite simple in that everyone has a dark
side which she/he may or may not be aware of. That part of the dark side of
which one is not conscious lives in the shadow, along with parts of oneself
which may also be quite pleasing, yet for one reason or another, are allowed
neither awareness nor expression. The other half of the dark side lives in our
awareness -- those demons or personal foibles of which we are conscious, and
while they may haunt or embarrass us, nothing is more formidable than the
darkness of which we are not aware. Thus, we say that it remains in the shadow,
dwelling unseen by an ego which insists that certain thoughts and behaviors
which we cannot bear to acknowledge are "not me."
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I have addressed the issues of darkness and forgiveness primarily in relation
to individuals. Nevertheless, communities, nations, and cultures have their own
darkness and, of course, their own shadows. As with individuals, the more
affluent, powerful, and self-sufficient a nation or culture is, the greater its
resistance to recognizing its shadow.
THE SHADOW ERUPTS IN AMERICA
The 1960s in the United States was a time of shadow emergence for a culture
smugly ensconced in having won a world war and delirious with the materialism of
the fifties. The bohemian writers and artists of the late fifties gave birth to
a generation of noisy dissidents who made famous such obscure places as
Berkeley, Selma, and Kent State. For nearly a decade, the
previously-unacknowledged malignancies of racism, sexism, the
military-industrial complex, and a plethora of societal hypocrisies erupted so
relentlessly and so tumultuously that the fabric of American culture began
rapidly unraveling. While it was a riveting time for young mavericks like
myself, zealously savoring intellectual and social transmutation, it was also an
era of exhaustion. The unveiling of the shadow is always burdensome and
frequently unbearable, as I believe it proved to be for America at the end of
the sixties.
The Vietnam War, the assassinations of John and Bobby Kennedy and Martin
Luther King, the conflagration of the 1968 Democratic Convention in Chicago, and
the Tet Offensive in Vietnam which gave rise to Lyndon Johnson's decision not to
seek a second term in office, as well as Richard Nixon's determination to bomb
Cambodia, brought to a head a configuration of social and political forces in
early 1970. For the first time, at an unrenowned university in Ohio, students
were shot and killed during a peaceful demonstration against the policies of the
United States in Southeast Asia. In a matter of weeks, however, a majority of
those engaged in protest quietly receded in disappointment, spelling of
cynicism, and despair. Suddenly, the gravel-throated strains of Janis Joplin and
Grace Slick gave way to the more pensive tunes of Carole King and James Taylor,
ultimately deteriorating into the mushy melodies of Karen Carpenter and Bread.
John Lennon released his first solo album which sounded as if it had been
marinated in rage, yet sorrowfully announcing that "the dream is over," the
dream of cultural and social transformation which the Beatles had been pivotal
in creating. Then, as if echoing an entire generation, Lennon sang primarily of
himself telling us that the only thing that matters is "me -- Yoko and me." With
the dawn of the 1970s, the youth of America fled from the streets and into the
ashrams, no longer preferring the militant lyrics of groups like the Jefferson
Airplane singing "Volunteers Of America," but rather etheral, other-worldly
words and music like Norman Greenbaum's "Spirit In The Sky."
THE SHADOW RECEDES
Not only were the sixties over, but so was the blatant eruption of America's
shadow. Journalists and social commentators analyzing the first six months of
1970 concur that the protest generation was exhausted. Remaining in the melee
had become too costly, too taxing to seem worth it any longer. Shortly
thereafter, three enormous icons of the sixties' cacophony succumb to the drugs
that they assured us would open minds and change the world. The deaths of Janis
Joplin, Jimi Hendrix, and Jim Morrison evoked further retreat from protest and
sent the Woodstock Nation on its way to shaping what has become unquestionably
the most narcissistic culture in the history of the world.
It is hardly surprising then, that with the subsiding of noisy, messy social
criticism in the seventies, the culture became mesmerized with tranquilizing
spiritual techniques and myriad paths to enlightenment. Tragically, the theme
song of the last two decades has been "me and my journey," rather than "me and
my shadow" or more accurately, "me, my culture, and the shadow".
But as Jung reminds us, when disowned, the shadow does not become extinct but
rather ultimately and invariably reveals itself with ever more ferocity and
stealth. America is now paying the price for being unable to tolerate the agony
of confronting its shadow in the early seventies. Each time the shadow is
disowned and the external situation appears to improve, we become more seduced
by the illusion that the shadow does not exist, and therefore, the difficulty of
confronting it multiplies a thousandfold. Nothing is more inimical to shadow
awareness than prosperity, success, comfort, and power. While such qualities are
not inherently undesirable, they can impede consciousness if one is not
committed to it above all else. Thus, we can only speculate where our culture,
now seemingly thoroughly deluded about its shadow, is headed. How dire must our
predicament become before we turn our attention again to the shadow that never
went away?
All nations perceive themselves from time to time as victims of other
nations, yet the United States is probably the least qualified nation on earth
to claim the victim status. Even a casual exploration of the American shadow
reveals the genocide of native peoples; the burning of witches; a robust
economic base built on the backs of slaves; economic and military imperialism
around the globe; the manufacture and detonation of the first atomic bomb; the
Vietnam War, attended by massive deception and cover up; Kent State; Watergate;
Iran-Contra; the S & L debacle; Tailhook; Oklahoma City; Columbine; Matthew
Shepard; James Bird. The United States is in desperate need of forgiveness, yet
until its transgressions are owned, forgiveness is not possible.
While it is true that President Clinton apologized publicly to Native
Americans for the nation's crimes against them in past generations, words are
only the beginning of restitution. On August 6, 1995, fifty years after
Hiroshima and Nagasaki, Japan requested an apology from the United States for
dropping the atomic bomb, but President Clinton and Congress declined. This
raises the issue of redress and how America might assume responsibility for its
transgressions. If America were to own its shadow, how could it experience
forgiveness?
THE SOUL OF COLLECTIVE REPENTANCE
Again, thinking mythologically, we have the example of the Old Testament in
which the scapegoat (an actual goat) was used as a sacrificial offering to atone
for the sins of the community. American history is replete with examples of
creating false scapegoats for its offenses, rather than acknowledging the
offenses. But if our nation were to become accountable, what would a "national
sin offering" look like in a culture that prefers to throw money at the messes
it creates rather than participate in cleaning them up. Ironically, Americans
seem to be driven by a sense of moral consciousness and purport to have
developed it far beyond the moral consciousness of any other nation on earth.
But this very "moral consciousness," I believe, is largely responsible for our
inability to acknowledge the American shadow. What we need is not more moralism,
not more spiritedness, and definitely not more therapeutic, talk-show
psychobabble. Rather, we need to face our plight mythopoetically, that is, by
exploring our story as a nation -- where it has been and where it is going --
symbolically, mythically utilizing poem and ritual, not merely more analysis.
One of the most mythopoetically dynamic locations in the United States is the
Vietnam War Memorial. At "the wall," the senses are fully engaged as people see
and touch the names of the dead, and as the sound of weeping and the wind in the
trees pierces the fallacies of "the just war."
At the wall, denial ends, and the slaughter and covert madness of the war's
architects shatter our illusions that we have somehow evolved beyond the
so-called incivility of the ancients. At the wall, the soul of America writhes
in remorse and the humbling reminder of the savage collective myths all humans
have played out -- from the caveman's club to the concentration camps of the
Third Reich.
Still another site of ritual and repentance is the Oklahoma City Memorial,
the bloodbath occurring there in April, 1995 a gruesome reminder that some
events cannot be cured, erased, resolved, or put behind us. Some six years
later, most of the survivors of the explosion now acknowledge that they will
never be whole -- that something was permanently taken from them on that day
that is gone forever. Their memorial stands not only as a monument to the 1995
tragedy but to the mythic essence of all grief and loss.
A national sin offering might begin with slowing down our frenetic lifestyle
as our President mandates a national day of mourning in which stores and stock
exchanges are closed, television networks (without commercials) are focused only
on the loss, and quiet rituals, not noisy, festive parades, are created in every
town and neighborhood of America. Spiritual advisors from indigenous religions
could be consulted and invited to perform grief rituals in places where shooting
sprees and other trauma have occurred. More memorials might be built by the
various communities that have been oppressed, such as the construction and
circulation of the AIDS Quilt by the gay and lesbian community in the eighties
and nineties.
A network of Native American tribes might construct a large memorial in the
center of the country which would become not only a monument but a shrine -- a
sacred place where members of the community could pray and share in rituals of
healing. With the support of concerned parents, children who have been
victimized by public trauma and private abuse could construct a national
memorial/shrine honoring wounded children and providing a sacred place to pray
for their wellbeing.
While these options for a national sin offering may sound too passive, too
simplistic, or too esoteric, they suggest a perspective and a pathway that has
not been explored -- an approach that does not legislate or finance superficial
quick fixes, but rather descends beneath the national ego to the mythic,
symbolic level where Americas shadow has been banished. It acknowledges that the
homeless are homeless not only because they are unemployed and often mentally
ill or drug-addicted, but that the culture has been pre-occupied with
marginalizing the outcasts -- exiling those who remind us of parts of ourselves
that we cannot bear to see.
The mythic perspective recognizes that children kill as a result of their
rage towards us for disowning the child in ourselves, that their innocence and
vulnerability terrify and repel us and that they are dying of the consumerism we
have fed them in order to avoid hearing their real needs -- needs we have no
idea how to meet because we have become so pathetically, dreadfully empty.
Reading the symbols of America's violence epidemic, we see that although guns
are cherished as sacred in our culture and our constitution, and although there
some five hundred guns for every American citizen, neither gun control nor gun
extinction can remedy the rage and cynicism that have made verbal abuse,
rudeness, and bullying both trendy and synonymous with sophistication.
In a culture that refuses to reflect upon itself and cannot tolerate human
encounters more profound than the banalities exchanged in shopping malls and
chat rooms, only radical ritual, in my opinion, can engender epicenters of
consciousness that reverberate into the radius of an anesthetized, consumeristic,
technologically-obsessed culture. Like the infant Moses, the modern world drifts
down the river of materialism in what may result unequivocally in the extinction
of the species, or may, by some act of inexplicable grace, ultimately
precipitate an "exodus" from the contemporary "pharaohs" of unbridled reason and
voracious technological conquest of the ecosystems -- a testimony to the
fragility and unpredictability of the destinies of individuals and cultures who
open the door of forgiveness.
This
article is excerpted from The Journey of Forgiveness, ©2000, by Carolyn
Baker, Ph.D. Reprinted with permission of the publisher, Authors Choice Press.
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About the Author
 Carolyn
Baker, Ph.D. is a storyteller, drummer, and educator living on the Mexican
border of the Southwestern United States. She leads workshops and retreats on
ritual and mythology of which she has been a lifelong student. She is author of
RECLAIMING THE DARK FEMININE.. The Price of Desire
as well as of
The Journey of Forgiveness.
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