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The Bottom Line

by Marie T. Russell

I’ve discovered a new technique! Actually, I can’t really say I discovered it... it came to me in a dream. In this dream, I was sitting in a classroom and the teacher presented this technique: 

When something comes up in your life, when something is taking place that is not in complete harmony, ask yourself one simple question. ‘Where is this coming from?’ 

The idea is to keep repeating the question and take it step by step until you get to the ‘bottom line’. The bottom line is a basic belief you hold which is instrumental in creating your reactions (and your reality). Whatever your beliefs are (and you can use this technique with everything, i.e., food addictions, anger habits, etc.), once you have discovered the bottom line, then make up the most positive statement you can to reverse the scale and clear the old pattern! 

An example? O.K. The other day I was going through some physical discomfort and found that I went around looking for sympathy. I was feeling the old ‘poor me’ syndrome. When I noticed this attitude in myself, I asked ‘Where is this feeling coming from?’ The first answer was ‘It’s coming from a need for attention.’ 

O.K., that was the first layer. So I took it one step further, and I asked ‘Where is this need for attention coming from?’ What I got, or what I understood, was that I believed that when people give me attention (or sympathy), it means they love me. 

Now this was getting interesting. So I asked again, ‘Where is that coming from?’ Promptly the clarity came. A belief in the lack of love in my life, thus the need for proof. That felt like the cause of this whole attitude, thus was the ‘bottom line’ belief. I believed (and this was rooted in my childhood) that I was not loved. Now when I look at this from my present adult perspective, of course I know for a fact that I am, and was, loved. Yet the belief that I formed in childhood was never eradicated! Thus it still was in my unconscious and popped up when it had the opportunity. 

So where to take it from there? Since the inner child or subconscious still had that belief, the first step was to start telling myself over and over again, ‘I AM LOVED! There is more than enough love for me and for everyone.’ I chose to say this affirmation silently to myself. You can write your affirmations, say them silently or out loud to yourself, shout them out, tell them to your friends. Repetition is the key! 

Whatever reprogramming affirmation you choose, say it often and say it with feeling! Write it on your mirror, tape it up on the fridge, put it wherever you are more apt to see it. If your bottom line is ‘I’m not good enough’, affirm ‘I AM GOOD ENOUGH’. If one of your old beliefs is ‘I’m a failure’, repeat to yourself ‘I AM A SUCCESS. I AM A WONDERFUL PERSON.’ 

I find that as I ask myself ‘Where is this coming from’, it gets easier and easier to find my way clear to the ‘bottom line’ belief. Our subconscious programs from childhood need to be uprooted if they are not bringing us happiness. Yes! We do deserve to be happy! Yes, we are good enough! 

The same situation can bring up many emotions and old patterns, thus various ‘bottom lines’ for each situation. For example, in the midst of this experience of physical pain, I found a thought popping up in my mind. Now this thought I recognized from previous encounters with pain. What was it? I was thinking ‘I wish I would die’ — obviously not an ‘enlightened’ belief — nevertheless, it was there in my mind. 

So I asked myself ‘Where is this coming from?’ And after a few steps, the bottom line that was revealed was the belief that life is painful. Now that belief may have been formed in the birth canal, yet the belief was still present more than 30 years later. It had never been canceled! So, I now affirm ‘LIFE IS JOYOUS! LIFE IS PLEASANT! LIFE IS SWEET!’ 

The idea of this process is to use it to track down unsupportive beliefs. You’ll find them behind every unpleasant encounter or mood. One thing to be careful of. When you ask ‘Where is this coming from?’ — make sure your answers deal with you! Don’t give as an answer, ‘It’s because of Jack’s behavior!’ If the answer that you get lays the ‘blame’ on someone, then ask yourself what emotion or feeling that brings up in you and then ask where that feeling is coming from. The important thing is to focus on YOU. It is your beliefs that affect your attitude and your reality! 

If you believed that everyone in your life is supportive of you and loves you, then, whatever ‘Jack’ did would not push your buttons. You would be secure in the knowledge that you are loved and worthy of love. Remember to look within yourself for the causes. If you throw the ball (blame) to someone else, you lose the power to change your life. 

When you take the time to reprogram your subconscious with new, positive, and empowering bottom lines, you become much happier with the outcome. What is the new bottom line? We deserve to be happy and fulfilled! We are loved, lovable beings with many gifts to share with the world.

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"A Garden of Thoughts - My Affirmation Journal"
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