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Creating
Loving Relationships
by
Mirtha Vega
In today's changing times, we are looking
for a better way to be ourselves, not someone we were raised to be. In this time of
intense self-discovery, all others serve as our mirrors. Every event, no matter how
insignificant, becomes an extraordinary opportunity for growth and self-improvement. We owe
it to ourselves, and to the planet as well, to be all we were meant to be, and possibly
more.
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It has become essential to surround
ourselves with those that will understand, and support, our growth. New forms of
communication are being created, which enable us to better deal with our changes, as well
as the changes of those we choose to associate with.
Nowhere are these new forms of
communication more evident than in the field of interpersonal relationships, and, even
more specifically, in the communication between friends and lovers.
With our times demanding so much, so
fast, of all of us, it is vital to be able to respond to the call. We are able to respond
faster if we are surrounded by love and support. Gone are game-playing days. It is time for
truth, and responsibility on all levels. If we choose to have a partner that assists, and
unconditionally supports our growth, it makes our life easier and we are more able to give
as well. We are open and not afraid of change, and, in fact, are ready to embrace it.
Let us decide from this moment on to
choose only those partners, friends, and acquaintances, which will fill our life with joy.
Let us make a difference right now. The time has come.
To attract and create what we need, as
individuals, it is important to keep in mind what works for one is not necessarily a
"magic" formula which guarantees success for everyone. We must not overlook the
individual's needs or focus on generalities.
We need to rediscover who we are, and
what it is we want out of a relationship. When we learn to trust ourselves enough to come
from that place of assured peace and power, our lives will be truly transformed, and we
will, at last, have relationships that work for us.
 Recommended
book:
"When Fairy Tale Romances
Break Real Hearts"
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About
The Author
Mirtha Vega is a counselor, healer, psychotherapist, and the owner
and operator of Santa Fe Dates, the service which specializes in conscious dating in Santa
Fe, NM.
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