Blame Attacks include Criticism, Accusations, Humiliation

Blame Attacks include Criticism, Accusations, Humiliation

Behavior Modification >> General Behavior

  by Carl Alasko, Ph.D. Blame is a series of actions and reactions. They all work together to generate the Blame Syndrome. The…

Decision-Making: What is the Right Decision?

Decision-Making: What is the Right Decision?

Finance and Careers >> Career Management

Youth is so burdensome because we have to decide which direction to take in many domains at once. By the…

Where to Find Friends: Plant Seeds of Friendship

Where to Find Friends: Plant Seeds of Friendship

Relationships >> Friendship

by Donald Altman. It goes without saying that harming others does not a…

Forgiving Your Children in Advance

Forgiving Your Children in Advance

Parenting >> Parenting Attitudes

by Tom Sturges. If fear of punishment is a motivation that keeps your daughter from calling you when she needs you the most, you may need to examine your emergency…

Making Choices & Managing Pain

Making Choices & Managing Pain

Diseases and Conditions >> Addiction

by Chönyi Taylor. The mind of addiction goes like this: “So I need to stop…

This Is Your Choice: Easy World or Difficult?

This Is Your Choice: Easy World or Difficult?

Leisure and Creativity >> General

by Julia Rogers Hamrick. Easy World is your "de­fault reality," the one you always go back to when you relax and stop resisting its powerful magnetic draw. You…

Falling Short: A Human's Quest for Perfection

Falling Short: A Human's Quest for Perfection

Behavior Modification >> Performance

by Mary Hayes Grieco. There is a nearly universal form of perfectionism hard-wired into human…

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Once Said, Never Unsaid: How To Talk to Teenagers

Once Said, Never Unsaid: How To Talk to Teenagers

by Tom Sturges. Here’s the problem: If you ever do become unhinged for a moment and say something unkind to your adolescent child, you can never take it back. Once said, it can... Read more

Criticism Leads to Anxiety and Fear

Criticism Leads to Anxiety and Fear

by Carl Alasko, Ph.D. Living with anxiety and fear creates unhappiness and despair in all our relationships. However, most of us suffer from too much anxiety and fear primarily because our communications provoke... Read more

How to Succeed with your Vision, Project, or Goal

How to Succeed with your Vision, Project, or Goal

by Alan Seale. We must continue to be aware that our own Thought, Emotion, and Truth are creating our personal reality fields in every moment. Which lane of the highway are we traveling... Read more

How to Relieve Stress and Live Stress-Free

How to Relieve Stress and Live Stress-Free

by David Ian Cowan. Part of letting go into the flow of life lies in realizing that you have never really been in control of your life, at least not from the perspective... Read more

About Allergies and Manic Depressive or Bipolar Disorder

About Allergies and Manic Depressive or Bipolar Disorder

by Stephanie Marohn. For some people, it is sufficient to clear the five basic groups, but most people with severe conditions such as bipolar disorder have more extensive allergies. The larger basic collection... Read more

How To Get What You Want from a Man (For Women Only!)

How To Get What You Want from a Man (For Women Only!)

by Jamie Rose. When I'm talking with my guy, especially if it looks like we're heading toward an argument, it's really important that I remember to listen carefully to what he is really... Read more

Meeting the Shadow: From Dante's Inferno to a World of Compassion

Meeting the Shadow: From Dante's Inferno to a World of Compassion

by Dr. Allan G. Hunter. In European mythology, this specific process of self-discovery (meeting the shadow) is usually depicted as the hero literally descending into the underworld and meeting the dead. Whether it’s... Read more

Blame Attacks include Criticism, Accusations, Humiliation

Blame Attacks include Criticism, Accusations, Humiliation

  by Carl Alasko, Ph.D. Blame is a series of actions and reactions. They all work together to generate the Blame Syndrome. The three parts are: The Blame Attack (the initial criticism — no... Read more

You Are Worthy! You Deserve the Best!

You Are Worthy! You Deserve the Best!

by Alan Cohen. We must be clear on our vision of who we are, the goals we hold most sacred, and what we deserve. When you seek to attain any goal, Abraham suggests... Read more

Falling Short: A Human's Quest for Perfection

Falling Short: A Human's Quest for Perfection

by Mary Hayes Grieco. There is a nearly universal form of perfectionism hard-wired into human nature. It is the belief that we are “falling short” of what we should be. It is the habit... Read more

Decision-Making: What is the Right Decision?

Decision-Making: What is the Right Decision?

Youth is so burdensome because we have to decide which direction to take in many domains at once. By the time we become elders, we have the benefit of every crossroad we have... Read more

Addiction Treatment: One Step on the Road to Recovery

Addiction Treatment: One Step on the Road to Recovery

by Barb Rogers. Exhaustion was the catalyst that took me to a recovery program. I was just so tired — tired of being sad and lonely, tired of fighting everything and everyone, and tired... Read more

How to Change & Let Go

How to Change & Let Go

by Nicola Phoenix. At first you may notice small, subtle alterations in your life and everything appearing to flow with ease. You may find that other people start to notice a difference in you.... Read more

Shame: It's Unhealthy, Self-Destructive & Extremely Toxic

Shame: It's Unhealthy, Self-Destructive & Extremely Toxic

by Mary Hayes Grieco. Shame is an unhealthy and extremely toxic emotion that makes a person very sick inside. It plays out in families and in society in a self-destructive and violent way, and... Read more

Been Downsized? Fired? Limit The Stress of Job Loss

Been Downsized? Fired? Limit The Stress  of Job Loss

Whether or not your own job is in jeopardy in the near future, at some point in your career, you may become a victim of downsizing (if you haven’t already). Being laid off... Read more

More Is Less: Organize the Mess & Get Rid of Clutter

More Is Less: Organize the Mess & Get Rid of Clutter

by Xorin Balbes. Clutter is making us crazy, and not just because we can’t find anything — because every bit of wood, metal, and plastic we collect is an anchor tying us to something,... Read more

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