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I watched on TV the concert that was part of the "Neighborhood Ball" of President Barack Obama's January 20th, 2009 inauguration. It was a wonderful celebration. Beyonce performed the song for the "first dance" for the new President and First Lady. Stevie Wonder, Sting, Mariah Carey, and many more sang... Yet the thing that stayed with me the most is the comment made by Beyonce when interviewed about her feelings after her performance. She said of Barack Obama: "He makes me want to be a better person." 

As I reflected on this later, I realized that this is the best compliment anyone could ever hope to receive. Just think about your own life... Think of the reactions and comments you may have made about others: "She/He makes me want to tear my hair out. He/she makes me sick... or He/she makes me so proud." Of course these are laying the responsibility for your feelings on the other, which of course is not where they belong. But my point here is about our own selves... about how we affect others by our presence and actions.

Being inspired to be a better person! What a vision for our own lives! That we should live our life so that not only do we want to be a better person, but that our own actions inspire others to be better persons. If we all lived up to our highest vision of ourselves, we would also inspire others to do the same.

Another comment that comes to mind is when the daughter of President Lyndon Johnson was interviewed and asked about her experience of growing up in the White House. She shared that her mother had told her: Never do anything that you wouldn't want published on the front page of the New York Times or the Washington Post. Again... a good way to live. Imagine how our own pettiness would evaporate if we knew that all our actions and even our thoughts would be "front page news" and known by everyone.

Would we behave differently with the persons we feel annoyed with if we knew our actions would be "front page news"? Probably. I'm not suggesting that we live "to impress the neighbors", but rather that we live in such a way that we can be proud of all our actions... whether they are known or not...

I recently had the chance of seeing the movie Seven Pounds. In it the main character (played by Will Smith) says to someone that they are truly a good person as they do the right thing even when no one is watching. So, yes we can be inspired and inspire ourselves to be a better person, even when no one else is watching... because after all, we are always seeing ourselves, and we are our greatest judge and jury.

Here's wishing that you have many people in your life that inspire you to be a better person, and that you are such an inspiration to others.

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About The Author

Marie T. Russell is the founder of InnerSelf Magazine (founded 1985). She also produced and hosted a weekly South Florida radio broadcast, Inner Power, from 1992-1995 which focused on themes such as self-esteem, personal growth, and well-being. Her articles focus on transformation and reconnecting with our own inner source of joy and creativity.

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