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How to Change & Let Go

How to Change & Let Go of Struggleby Nicola Phoenix.

At first you may notice small, subtle alterations in your life and everything appearing to flow with ease. You may find that other people start to notice a difference in you. You may even find that situations that you have always hoped for turn up. Most importantly, you will notice how you feel as a new state of being evolves.

How Do You Find the Path of Joy?

How Do You Find the Path of Joy?by Sanaya Roman.

There are many life-paths you can choose, just as there are many ways you can serve on a planetary level. There is a path of will, a path of struggle, and a path of joy and compassion.

Everyone Desires Happiness... Yes, Everyone!

everyone desires happinessby B. Alan Wallace.

It’s easy to like some people and it’s not very easy to like others. They don’t smile back! So it has to go deeper. If we continue to judge people on the basis of appearances and behavior, the endeavor is hopeless. Instead we have to return to a very simple truth...

Learning to Smell the Daisies

Learning to Smell the Daisies - article by BJ Gallagherby BJ Gallagher.

A young woman had a suitor who loved her very much. The suitor came to her door clutching a bouquet of daisies to give her. "Where are my roses?" she demanded. Her suitor turned and went away. The next week he was back on her doorstep with another bunch of daisies...

Dealing with Today’s Energies

Dealing with Today's Chaotic Energies by Adele Ryan McDowell, Ph.D.by Adele Ryan McDowell, Ph.D.

Can you feel the energies bumping up against you? One minute, you feel pushed; the next minute, pulled. One minute, you’re OK, and the next minute, you’re not. It’s chaotic out there. Our world is in flux; nothing feels normal anymore.

Is This You? Frustrated, Cynical...

Article: Is This You? Frustrated, Aggressive, Cynical by Joan Borysenko

by Joan Borysenko.

The idealized self — the mask you put on for appearance’s sake — reaches the breaking point during burnout. All that work to maintain the facade, and it couldn’t even deliver the goods. You still don’t feel happy and fulfilled. As a result, the false self finally...

Fear: The Core of Your Problems

Fear: The Core of Your Problems by Jonathan Parkerby Jonathan Parker.

The idea that we create our own reality — that is, the concept of the mirror universe — often seems to ring true, but it also raises some troubling questions. Sometimes it’s easy to see this principle at work in our lives, but other times, especially when things aren’t going very well, it can be hard to understand how...

HAPPINESS: Can You Handle It?

Article: Happiness -- Can You Handle it? by author, Marie T. Russell

by Marie T. Russell.

We all want to be happy! At least, we all say we do... yet, how much happiness can we handle? How much happiness are we willing to have in our lives before we sabotage ourselves? Let's look for a minute at...

Am I Being Kind...

Michael J. Chase, the author of the article: Am I Being Kind...

by Michael J. Chase.

As someone who was once unhappy in every sense of the word, I can personally verify that misery leads to heartless behavior, and vice versa. For years I experienced failed relationships, financial struggles, poor health, depression, and an endless stream of...

Expectations of Happiness

Expectations of Happiness, article written by James Bairdby James D. Baird, Ph.D.

It goes without saying — but I’m going to mention it anyway — that your happiness, or lack thereof, depends largely on your expectations. If you believe that only one person, job, home, or car can bring you happiness, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. Even if you...

Oh No, Not This Place Again!

Colette Baron-Reid, author of the article: Oh No, Not This Place Again!

by Colette Baron-Reid.

How many times have you found yourself in a repetitive cycle you just can’t seem to break? Are you back to that same old situation again, the one that makes you feel powerless and miserable? It’s easy to judge yourself harshly as you think, What happened? I did all that...

The End of Sacrifice

The End of Sacrifice, written by author Alan Cohen

by Alan Cohen.

I recently made a pilgrimage to the ancient Mayan temples at Chichen Itza and Tulum in Mexico. At one pyramid our tour guide informed us that the Mayans regularly offered human sacrifices to appease their gods. While we would regard such offerings as primitive and even abhorrent, the mindset of sacrifice is still very much alive in the modern...

Just What Is a Feeling, Exactly?

David  Kundtz, author of the article: Just What Is a Feeling, Exactly?

by David Kundtz.

Just What Is a Feeling, Exactly? That was a question a client asked me, with an emphasis on the "exactly." It's a great question because it is so direct, to the point, and so difficult to answer exactly and correctly. But because it is so important, and because...

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